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5th Grade - Q & A

5th Grade - Q & A

Training Tips

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In this stage of your horsemanship journey—“5th Grade”—you’re beginning to ask your horse for more refinement, more communication, and more responsiveness… all from the ground. This Q&A session from the Horse Help Challenge is packed with valuable tips on groundwork, tie training, flexing, and more.

Whether you’re transitioning from 4th grade or looking to improve soft feel and body control, this post is for you.


Groundwork Beyond 4th Grade

Advancing Without Riding

If you've completed the preschool through fourth-grade groundwork, you're probably wondering: What’s next? The answer is simple—you advance your horse in riding without riding. In 5th grade, the emphasis is on refinement, understanding pressure, and developing softness.

While this particular session didn’t dive deeply into long lining, there’s a 2020 Challenge replay video available that includes long lining and Liberty training, as well as introductory trick training.


How to Tie a Horse That Pulls Back

Set Them Up to Succeed—Not to Struggle

Question: How do you train a horse to tie if they’ve pulled back before?

Answer: The key is preparation. Use:

  • A solid MG halter

  • A flat wall that won’t budge

  • Good, safe footing to prevent injury

You’re not just tying a horse—you’re setting up a training moment where the wall does the work, not you. You supervise, but the wall is the teacher. Don’t intervene unless there’s real danger. Many people sabotage the lesson by “rescuing” the horse too soon.

Pro tip: Check out the "Benefits of Tie Time" video in the Start Here Series of the Horse Help Challenge.

How Long Should a Horse Be Tied?

Every horse is different. Some might learn in one session, others need:

  • Days or weeks of consistent tie time

  • A commitment to not quitting too soon

The goal is to build mental stamina, self-regulation, and responsibility.


Flexing 101: From the Ground and In Motion

Understanding Resistance, Softness, and Connection

Question: Why does my horse drop his head and only give his nose? Is that resistance?

This is a common scenario when a horse:

  • Gives his nose, but not his neck

  • Responds better on one side than the other

The Solution:

Flexion should be full-body communication, not just a token nod. Flex until the horse gives:

  • To your hand

  • Around to your stirrup

  • Without bracing, leaning, or resisting

If they resist or don’t try, increase pressure until they look for the right answer.

Signs Your Horse Understands Pressure:

  • Pull their face → their feet should move

  • Spook test → they don’t drag you

  • Change direction → they do it lightly and calmly


How to Flex a Mini Horse From the Ground

Proper Long Lining Setup for Small Horses

When working with minis:

  • Stay behind the horse in early driving stages

  • Keep lines low to avoid triggering spinning or flipping

  • If using a surcingle, flip it upside down so the rings are on the bottom

This helps maintain leverage and consistency in your cues.


Fixing Flexion Issues on the Move

How to Work Through Resistance While Riding

Horses often resist flexing in motion by:

  • Raising their head

  • Getting stiff on one side

The Fix:

Pick one side and stay there.

  • Don’t “half-ass” both sides.

  • “Whole-ass” one side until the horse softens and drops their head willingly.

After the horse yields, the release gets longer until softness becomes their habit.


Nipping at the Stirrup During Flexing?

Redirect Their Focus

If a horse tries to nip at your stirrup while flexing:

  • Simply ask for more flexion, past your leg

  • Don’t scold, redirect

This reduces the habit without creating conflict.


Flexing With Obstacles in the Round Pen

Should You Remove Distractions?

Question: Can my horse flex with stuff in the arena like obstacles, other horses, or plastic bags?

Answer: They should.

Training with obstacles builds mental focus and trail-readiness. If your horse can’t flex around a tarp in the round pen, they won’t be able to respond when they see a plastic bag on the trail.

Don’t create a sterile environment. Train for the real world.


How Far Should a Horse Flex?

The Ideal Goal for Standstill Flexion

At a standstill, a horse should:

  • Touch their nose to your leg

  • Flex far enough so their face passes your leg as you begin to ask for hindquarter movement

This sets the stage for turning, disengagement, and softness under saddle.


Dealing With a Stiff-Necked Mustang

Constant Contact vs. Pulsing Pressure

For a strong or stiff horse:

  • Try pulsing pressure: bump-bump-bump until they soften

  • Some horses respond better to this than to constant pressure

Key Tip:

You’re not trying to win a tug-of-war. You’re teaching them that giving to pressure brings relief.


Should a Horse Flex Without Moving Their Feet?

Yes! Absolutely.

A horse must:

  • Flex both directions without stepping

  • Learn that moving their feet does not end the flexing

If they move, keep flexing. You’re not adding energy—you’re just waiting for the right answer.


Final Thoughts: Build the Steering Wheel

Flexing is your steering wheel. If your horse can’t flex, they can’t steer, and you’re not safe. Flexion builds:

  • Softness

  • Body control

  • Mental connection

Whether your horse is young, reactive, or green, flexing daily—in different environments—builds trust and control.

 

Want more tips on training problem horses? Join our Free Horse Help Challenge and start enjoying your horse today!
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